Not answering is itself an answer

Silence can be deafening.

The mind will run to all the worst case scenarios when left to itself with no guidance.

In the end I suppose its up to me to let it go and let things be what they will be.  If there's one thing all my years have taught me, it's that I cannot change the things I have no control over so worrying on them is of no use and tends to be detrimental overall.

Some day the answers will come; or they won't.